OB issues

Hello ladies. This might be a little long. So me and my husband tried to conceive for the first time last month and we got a BFP the day of my missed period. Now this was my very first pregnancy ever so I was a total noobie and very excited. Well 2 days later I started bleeding. I didn’t know what was going on. I was scared. I thought maybe I was having implantation bleeding, spotting, I don’t know, I was being hopeful. So I called my OB and went in the next day. She asked me why I thought I was pregnant and why I even came in... I said well I tested positive and I’m bleeding soooooo? She’s like okay well this just looks like a period. Let’s do a blood pregnancy test to see your levels and come back in 2 weeks. Well I continued to bleed just like a regular period. It was obviously a chemical and miscarriage.

Well here comes the second month of trying and low and behold I tested positive again 3 days ago. 5 days before my missed period. I got a FR positive everyday the last 3 days. This morning I started spotting. It was brown mucus looked like old blood not bright red like last month. So I’m thinking okay it’s not that bad it’s not bright red let me go to my OB just to see what’s going on. I called this morning got an appt for the afternoon. So I go to my appointment and yet again she’s confused as to why I’m the there. She keeps asking me why I think I’m pregnant. Uhhhhh because Ive been actively trying and tested positive for the last 3 days? She’s like last month your blood fame back negative. And I’m like yeah well cuz I was on the second day of my period when I came here all scared. Obviously I wasn’t pregnant anymore. She’s like oh no it takes 3 weeks for you to show negative you wouldn’t just test negative overnight like that. And I’m like even if I was super brand new pregnant? Cuz at that point I had been pregnant for maybe 5 days probably not even.

Anyway so going back to today... she goes maybe you’re misinterpreting the tests. It has to be 2 lines. WOW OKAY??? I think she thinks I’m a complete idiot who just keeps coming in for no reason. Obviously I know it has to be 2 lines. I guess I’m misinterpreting multiple tests including a digital that said YES+. WOW JUST WOW. I was like i have pictures of my tests. There are 2 lines. And at that point she was like well sometimes those are wrong (which I agree) so lets do a blood test and see. And then shes like you didn’t even miss your period yet (AF DUE IN 2 DAYS) looks like you’re getting an early period that’s all. And sends me off on my way.

She made me feel like I was an idiot and that I wasn’t ever really pregnant last month or even now and that I was just going in for no reason. The reason why I even went in today was because I thought maybe she would give me progesterone because I have a history of testing positive and bleeding a few days later. But she didn’t even take me seriously or even believe I was ever pregnant so of course why would she ever prescribe me that? I GUESS IM JUST A LIAR AND CRAZY HUH? Anyway I’m still spotting brown so I’ll probably just get my period soon and have yet another chemical and miscarriage. HOW NICE. END RANT.