Pregnancy sex...

I’m twenty weeks and finally started to get that sex drive I’ve been waiting for. Only problem is, it is so painful!! My man feels giant and it hurts to the point of not being pleasurable for me. So I get horny and have sexy dreams about my man and then when I follow through, it’s awful because it hurts so much. Is it possible that my kegels are just making it all tighter which is why it hurts? Anyone else had pain during pregnancy sex? What have you found makes it better?