Help feeling sexually empowered after toxic sexual experiences?

Anyone have good resources (links, books, even advice idk) for someone who is struggling to feel in control of my own sexuality after having so many toxic sexual experiences (mostly issues of coercion and unequal sexual dynamics). I'm with a partner who I really love right now and treats me really well but I can't shake the guilt, shame, and negativity I've internalized from previous negative experiences. It's putting a big damper on our sexual relationship to the point where I hardly ever feel comfortable engaging sexually with him. Any help???