Masturbating in Front of My Man

Let me start by saying that I hear this topic come up often and I never really paid any attention because I always thought, "I would totally sexify that situation if it were me". But when it comes time to do it, I feel a little lacking if I don't have a few drinks in me. Figures.

I have been dating this new guy for about 5 months now and the sex is great and fun and open (can I get a Hallelujah, ladies?). I am typically very creative with sex, so I often suggest new ideas. He beat me to the punch on this one: having me masturbate in front of him.

My first thought, and what I said..

But then when I hung up the phone I'm like..

I haven't done that in a long time for someone.

Some back story: We do have a little bit of a long distance relationship going on, but we see each other as often as possible. Which is why making this as sexy as possible on the first try is important!

First things first. I bought 4 sexy lingerie outfits to model for him; maybe give a little dance. Then it's play time. **But what I want to know is how any of you overcame this feeling-uncreative-ness? What sexy things did you say or do? Did you use toys/props? How did you use them? Anything else?** I like dirty talk if that helps.

[Let me add that I am indeed comfortable with my body, myself, sexuality, etc. However, I sometimes feel uncreative in the moment, which leads me to feel nervous, which then leads me to feel unsexy and under pressure to satisfy. I'm not looking for answers that suggest I need to be more comfortable with myself. This is merely a mental block issue.]