No foreplay? Is he just lazy?

Ok so I can squirt. I like to. (Some ladies disagree on what it is but I've been doing it and I know what it is but this isn't about that so please don't bring it up). My boyfriend made me do it twice. He SUCKS at foreplay. He gets mad at me because I don't have an orgasm every time we have sex saying I take too long but this guy rubs my clit for like 3 minutes until I'm wet enough for him to stick it in. I've tried guiding his hand to finger me but he won't. If I start fingering myself, he'll just push my hand away and go inside me. He barely gives me oral. I've had talks about this with him. I Told him I need more foreplay. That I can't cum in 10 minutes of penetration it just doesn't work. But he doesn't change anything. We literally argued about this once and after the first time we had he just had sex with me again with NO FOREPLAY. And he was like "you needed that". I got pissed and said "I don't know who you've been having sex with that cums that fast with only penetration but there must be something wrong with me". Because what the fuck? If I'm fingered, I'll squirt. He's made me squirt before through just penetration and he got so excited he had sex with me twice and told his friend in the morning (I was mad about that). Don't you think he would want to do that again?? I told him I feel like he's not attracted to me and he's just using me for sex and he's saying he's not and that he is attracted to me but it sure as hell doesn't feel that way. Is he just lazy?? Or what? It's to the point where I focus on cumming so much to make him feel better I end up getting dry because I'm so stressed out about getting mine that I lose it.