Anyone with a bfp have cramps so bad you swore af was coming?

I’m 13 DPO, had a bfn at 11DPO and I’ve been cramping on and off for a week. I typically don’t have cramps that early before AF... the ones I’m having now I swear AF will show tomorrow, but until she arrives I can’t help but have a sliver of hope. Anyone with a bfp have period like cramps the days leading up to when af would have come? I’ve also been feeling lightheaded... I just really thought this would be our month after trying since September with no luck 😥