While I don’t think our sex life is bad, I was looking to shake things up a little. Apparently I’m more adventurous than my boyfriend. I tried to get him to explain more in detail the kinda stuff he is into that maybe we hadn’t tried or stuff he was curious about. His response? Shit we already do! That’s all he could come up with in four days. This man drives me nuts y’all lol. I have a big weekend planned next weekend to surprise him (he doesn’t know) and I was looking for ideas but he blew that 🤦🏼‍♀️ so my question is... when you’re looking to spice things up in the bedroom, what do you do for your man? Especially for a man that won’t talk and says it makes him uncomfortable to have that kinda convo because he never has before. I took him to an adult store once and he was interested but said he didn’t know where to start and what to get lol.

Obviously I plan on dressing up and stuff but what else?!