Gender reveal:

My partner and I are so so happy that we just found out we're pregnant!

However, he and I stand on two sides of a decision we both find important... He doesn't under any circumstances want to know the gender of our baby till birth but I want to know the second we can know. How would you tackle this situation? or have you tackled this issue before? It's important to him that he doesn't know but it's important to me that we do know.

I know it doesn't sound like a crisis but this is our first child and we just want it all to be perfect (I know I'm wishing too hard! somethings bound to go wrong at some point and well get over those issues). Do you think it's a possibility for me to know and him not to? or do you think that would cause some animosity between us? or should I just put my feelings aside and not know the gender? He does love being so so involved and is treating me like a queen. He held me so tight yesterday, tearing up at how blessed he feels to have me and the little one inside me.. He had me choked up

He makes me so happy! But I've always wanted to know ever since I was a little girl, it was always just the plan 😭 I probably sound like a brat!

please let me know what you think? sorry this is a long one! 🙈 Thank you for reading x