He’s lazy what do I do.

Fuck man I’ve been with my bf for 6 years and he does not clean up after himself what so ever I’ve done it everyday sense day 1.. it gets so bad I just can’t like it makes me not fucking like him.. I asked him 4 days ago if he could please take the trash out and he didn’t so now there is 4 trash bags piled up in the kitchen because he keeps “forgetting” I’m healing from a c section so I would if it wasn’t so heavy 😏 I mean I’m in pain and he says it’s my job and that all men do it and that I just need to do my job.. fuck he’s irritating me. Also this is our 2nd kid and today he watched them for 3 hours and I come home tired and he’s like “thank god ur home I’m going to go take a nap I was with them all day I’m tired!” He yelled it. I started laughing because I’m a sahm and when he gets home from work i ask him to watch them while i shower and that I’m tired and he’s always like all you do is stay home why are tired lol bitch now you know it’s not fucking easy. Idk I just need to rant.. I feel like I have 3 kids.. I just wish he was nice to me and appreciated me more.. I’m really starting to believe that sense I’m a sahm it is my job to do everything for him while he goes out and has fun.. every weekend he goes with friends from like 6am till 4pm just cuz he wants to but if I’m gone for more then 3 hours he yells at me.. idk I want me time..