Why can’t he satisfy me??

Okay so I’ve been talking to this guy for a while now and he came over one day and he started to finger me, it felt really good but i could not cum. We tried it for a while then we gave it a break then we tried again but it just wasn’t gonna happen.

So a day later i was still bent on it and i fingered myself (the same way he fingered me) and i got myself off. So why can’t he get me off?? This isn’t the first time it’s happened with us and idk what i could do.