HELP!!

So I kind of have this problem with my boyfriend, majority of the times I suggest we do something during the day (go for coffee etc) he usually refuses, but keeps doing those things with his friends and he would only see me at night (we don’t live together so we would visit each other’s house in the evening) I’m just not sure what it is about like he doesn’t compliment me or any of them nice and cute things. We’ve been together for 2.5 years and I love him with all my heart but I’m scared maybe he doesn’t and he just says it for the sake of saying it