Should I be mad ??????

My fiance and I just moved to a new state and I didn't have a job lined up before we moved. but I did have money saved until I found a job. So we decided that it would be best if I be a stay-at-home mom because childcare is too expensive$$$$. I have a 10 year old and 2 year old. My fiance brings home all the money he take care of all the bills but I never have any money for myself he doesn't give me money just to have in my pocket he buys all my personal items. I really don't like it I'm used to having my own money in my bank account. normal stuff that I will buy for myself I found myself not getting because I don't feel like it's my money what should I do? Am I wrong for feeling this way and over exaggerating and making a big deal out of nothing?