Should I keep asking him?

Question

So... my fiancé and I have been together for a while (little over a year). There is a 9 year age difference between us and he is older. I'm ready for a baby but when I ask him about it he closes up and says he's not sure if he wants kids. We have never used protection since we have been together so it's only a matter of time, but I want to make sure he is completely ready. Should I keep asking him or just leave him alone about it for a while?

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if you want kids and he doesnt want kids you have to have a serious conversation about it before you get married.

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Having kids is a big thing. If he doesn't want kids and you do? Don't marry him.

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if he is "not sure" if he wants kids why is he not wearing protection and potentially putting you in a situation to be a single mom? do not keep asking him but do ask him to wear protection until he is sure of his choice.

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You need to sit down and have serious conversation. Honestly before you have sex again. You both need to go into marriage on the same page. No kids would be a deal breaker for me.

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I would leave him alone about it. My boyfriend doesn’t really like talking about the subject either.

Should I keep asking him?

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