How to get used to anal sex?

Question

Hey ladies. So, me and my boyfriend have been together for almost one and a half a year, and having sex for over a year now. We have tried anal couple of times but, damn, it hurts as hell. (he is kind of huge) Now, I really really really want to do this, but this pain keeps me worried every single fucking time, and absolutely kills my mood during the sex. So, how do I get used to it? What can I, or we do? Would anal plugs help me get used to it? Please, I really need your help.

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Omg. I doesn't matter if you use butt plugs or anal beads. It's not like it's gona stretch your ass out permanently and make it more comfortable. The first few time I had anal was with my ex I had been with for 6 years at the time. I liked it but not enough to want it regularly because we never expiramented enough. It's COMPLETELY different with my boyfriend now! At first I was scared because he's thicker so of course it was more painful. He sware lube is not a necessity but I beg to differ!! He tought me the trick is to be 100% RELAXED and your partner has to understand that the initial penetration has to be completely controlled by you. I had a hard time with this the first few times with him because i like him to be the dominate one and lead. I learned the second your not in control though, your natural response is to tense up and you can really do damage to yourself medically if your not careful. It might sound weird but try talking eachother through it until you get more familiar and comfortable with it. It's all about communication and trust.

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You don't get used to it ! It sucks and it hurts . Sincerely a bitter women who hates anal ! Lmaooooo jk .

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Yes, butt plugs help a lot. Just wear them for a couple of hours a day a few days a week and you’ll get used to having something up there so it won’t hurt as much.

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Lube and work up to..him lol. like start off with fingers or small toys then work your way up.

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Maybe it’s something you don’t enjoy? Why are you forcing yourself to do it? 
From what I’ve heard you can
1. Use a ton of lube
2. Have to be really turned on
3. Maybe a shot or two of alcohol 
4. There is something called anal-ease that is suppose to help numb the area 
However 
It’s your body, your preference, your choice - sounds like it’s not your thing.

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lots of lube. It helps so much.

How to get used to anal sex?

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