screwing the system

So..... This is long, and I may get some lash back. That's ok. But topic of conversation in my office right now... We have a 19 year old who gave birth 9 months ago.. she didn't know if her or her boyfriend should claim the baby... all the women in my office are not married with kids and they are giving her advice on how to "screw the system" to get more money back. Her exact words were "I'm going to get every cent this f*****g state owes me". Now excuse me, you got pregnant on accident the first month you knew your boyfriend. Neither of you worked when you found out until you were 4 months pregnant. Then you landed in my office. How? Only god knows. And he just got around to getting a job a few months ago. Because she was nagging him to. However, the state "owes" you nothing. None of these women are owed anything. But still feel entitled to financial aid, Medicaid, and any other assistance. When asked if they planned on getting married, they all said no. They would lose their benefits if they did. That just pisses me off the mentality that these women have.. the saddest part, our newest hire (22 years old) just found out she's 3 1/2 months, and they are already giving her "pointers". Don't get me wrong, I firmly believe that when you are down and need help, you should be able to get it. Espically if you've been working and have fallen on hard times. No one should have to go without. But seriously help yourself, don't expect everyone to do for you. *So, I forgot she got the job because her baby's daddy is the brother of one other womens babies daddy, and cousin to the other women..... WTF