How on earth can you boast about you being a grandma but then hold it over mine and your sons head that we'll be young parents, how can you use my baby as a manipulation tactic/weapon, and say I'm going to end up being a single mom then be surprised when I don't want you in my baby's life? Why would I want my baby around someone who constantly turns their existence into an argument? It doesn't matter if you're blood related to them, don't use their conception or existence as a tool to manipulate or argue and then get upset when I make the decision to not have you around them.