“Just quit trying, or thinking about it”

Sorry ladies a little bit of a vent here..

TTC for just over 2 years with no luck. 2 failed IUIs, and constant BFN:(

Wondering how the hell people can say “just stop trying” or “don’t think about it and it will happen”?

It’s damn near impossible to “not think about it”!!

Anyone who has been TTC is so in tune with their bodies that we know when we are ovulating and when our period is coming. It’s engrained into us when to BD to get results, we can’t just “not think about it”

I “stopped trying” 1 year ago and guess what still no BFP:(

So frustrating!