I'm not sure whats going on

I barely have an appetite, my boyfriend , my friends tell me that I need to eat, I'm just not in the mood to eat. I eat maybe once or twice a day, usually when I'm at work, I work the 3rd shift .

I'm on the heavy side, I have a 9 month old and I have a very busy life. balancing everything. eating really isn't a priority.

why am I like this

ps I'm not sure if its relevant but my anxiety is so bad anything sets off an attack. going to the doctors soon for it