Needing some support

My husband and I both wanted a large family... we were just given the news that IVF or IUI would be our only options for having a child.. I don't know how to cope with knowing that because of the expense, we may only get to have 1 child (if that). I am greatful that there is still a chance to have 1 baby and I know some people don't even have that chance, I just really, really expected to have more than 1 😞💔