Advise on Baby Led Weaning

Baby is 7.5 months.

We started on puréed food at just a week under 6 months.

We have been giving him the opportunity to feed himself over a month now. Along with puréed food.

He was eating both really well and would eat absolutely anything.

He has not got any teeth. But chews with his gums.

Now he only wants to feed himself and refusing nearly all food from the spoon. And has started to whine/scream until he gets something he can feed himself in his hands.

Please help me and advise on baby led weaning.

Suggestions on what to feed him etc...how to do it...how to cook stuff etc

I am terrified and have severe postpartum anxiety and panic every time I feed him, especially when I’m Home alone.

We’ve had a choking incident on the first attempt early on.

I’m constantly watching YouTube videos etc on how to deal with a choking baby.