If you love someone should you always stay with them?

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If you guys fight all the time even over small things, abusive, don't match up? 
.... I always see things about if you really love someone you will always try and work it out no matter what.... personally i think that is unrealistic and unreasonable. Even under not so "extreme" circumstances.
Give some reasons why u think it wouldn't always be true....
Also at the end of the day isn't it always ur choice even if u love someone to call off a relationship if it is better for you?

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That’s a dangerous way of thinking. It gets women killed.

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Why be miserable with someone? Love isn't enough if nothing is working. If someone is abusive then there's nothing worth saving anyway. Abuse isn't love.

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For me abuse, cheating or another kind of dishonesty are my two deal breakers. Otherwise I will do everything I can to work on my relationship and not walk away. Even constant fighting (as long as it’s civil and doesn’t become cruel and abusive) is something that can be fixed in many situations. Now that doesn’t mean you try to fix things forever. I’d give it my all and after a while if there was no progress then I’d consider walking away.

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I grew up in an abusive home. I refuse to tolerate ANY level of abusive behavior. I will never live that life again.

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love someone, but love yourself most of all. Have the self love sufficient to know you deserve to be treated with respect

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No way. Love is not enough if they don't love you back. Someone who loves you back, really loves you is not abusive. You won't fight all the time. You won't be asking these questions.

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No. You can love a lot of people. That doesn’t mean it’s a good idea for you to be with them. My ex boyfriend was abusive. I did love him. I don’t know why. He was so amazing for a while and then he started being so violent and manipulative. It does depend though I guess. The person in the position just needs to weigh if the struggles they are facing are worth the pain it takes to work through. Sometimes it’s not and that’s okay. Love isn’t always fun and beautiful.

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If the relationship is draining, leave him. Even if you love him. Even if you whole heartedly care for them. Even if you two have years put into each other. If it is draining, leave the relationship. A friendship may be possible. But never put yourself in any danger.

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My boyfriend and I have been trying for a baby for a while and the stress got to us and our housing situation changed massively and things went bad to worse. He never hurt me but we argued a lot... a hell of a lot. So much stress and anger at the world caused us to be angry at each other sometimes. 
We decided to sort things out fight for each other I've moved back in with my parents for a couple of weeks and he has too whilst we put in to rent our own flat. And it's been incredible. 
He's been taking me out for dates, discussing our issues, making plans. 
He always says "I think I took you for granted and I didn't see what I had until we had to be away from each other" 
My love for him has grown and the same for him. We are in love and I can't wait for us to get the flat of our dreams. 
So in answer to your question arguing you can get through if you're both willing to fight and establish the problem. 
Abuse is abuse then you need to go find someone who will treat you how you deserve to be treated!
Good luck 💕

If you love someone should you always stay with them?

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