sexually frustrated

I need to start this off by saying that I am a VERY sexually driven woman. I love sex, and I honestly think it's a huge part of a healthy relationship. I've been with my man for almost a year and everything is phenomenal. Even the sex at the beginning was. He would eat me out, finger me, put his mouth wherever/whenever and was ALWAYS ready to go. After about 3 months, all of that stopped. He would only "eat me out" once in a while and when he did, it was literally for like 2 minutes. Now, he has stopped with foreplay all together. Our sex consists of him getting head, I'll ride for like 5 minutes, then it's done. I've voiced to him that I love foreplay and it's important to me. He hates sex toys, he tells me they "weird him out" and that if I have him, I shouldn't need toys. The other night I was messing around and I said hun why don't we make a sex tape for fun? We would be the only ones seeing it. This man goes "no. I don't want to do anything with you that you may have done with someone else" so I said ok then why do you have sex with me at all? I've tried not giving him head, I've tried talking to him about what I like and need. He just seems like he's jealous of my past or intimidated that I obviously had other men in my life before he came along. I love him, I really do. I could see myself marrying him. But not if this poor excuse of a sex life doesn't change. Guys I've been with before couldn't keep their hands off me. I've never been with someone who genuinely made me question if there was something wrong with me. I'm just wondering if anyone has any advice or has had similar experiences??