college couple

so my husband (43) went back to school last Aug and I(31) decided to go back last month. we have biology and math together. we've had a test in both classes,I made a 72 and he made a 61 on our biology (he also had to study for a psychology test),on our math test he made a 71 and I made a 98...I should feel good about making a good grade but I don't.i feel like I failed as his wife because it looks like I'm trying to do better than him and I'm not. I want us both to make A's in our classes so that we can get into our programs, both are very competitive (him nursing, me ultrasound).I told him that I wanted us to go get help from the tutors because I want us to both do good. I don't know if I'm looking for advice, encouragement.....I just needed to get it off my chest I guess. for everyone who read this whole thing, thank you.