I guess it's not my time

Mi

I am 39 and had an IUD for 10yrs. Had it removed in October and had reg periods since. started ttc this month, had 5 positive tests and was going on my second day of being late. AF showed it ugly head this afternoon, came home to take another test to check and it showed that it was now neg. I guess I had a chemical pregnancy. How do you ladies that have had this happen get over these feelings? This is my first time having this happen. Baby dust to all of you!!