baby hates car seat at night...help!

Shelly

She is fine during the day, but once it's dark she cries the whole drive. have tried aromatherapy, night light, Christmas lights, toys with lights, even broke down and tried a DVD player which I'm against, but am desperate. Any tips? Is this something ij am just gonna have to wait out? My husband does poorly with crying in the car, so it's extra stressful hearing her cry and him bitching and complaining and getting pissy in my other ear.