Crying during sex ??

Question

Ok so recently I found my bf being unfaithful (please no comments telling me to leave him and stuff Bc we are working our issues out) and ever since then I’ve been crying during sex Bc I keep having these thoughts that I’m not good enough for him. I’m trying so hard to stop but I can’t help it sometimes. How can I stop? Idk why I even posted this tbh, I just needed to get it off my chest.

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You want us to find ways to encourage you to stay in what's clearly an unhealthy relationship and I for one,  can't do that.  I understand that you love him and want this relationship to work but does he love you the same.  Honestly, if the roles were reversed,  do you think he'd stay with you? Now, I'm not saying leave him,  because you don't wanna hear that but just know,  people only do to you what you allow,  don't spend your life feeling unworthy,  when there's someone out there who wouldn't ever plant that seed of doubt.

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If a man (excuse me, boy) makes you feel unworthy then he is not worth your time. You’re the prize. You’re the treasure and YOU should feel VALUED. I’m not going to tell you to leave him but I will remind you of your worth.

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By leaving him. At least for a while to see what he really wants and if he’s willing to change.. but since you said not to tell you any of that 🤷🏻‍♀️🙄

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HE should be making you feel better. if youre trying to work it out its goinv ti take a lot for you to trust hom ever again and its going to be a while before you feel worthy etc  because its his fault you feel like that. he needs to wise up and be doing everything in his damn power to nake you feel secure safe and loved . if he cant then tell him to go

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Leave him. That’s not healthy.

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if it's something that you're working on together it'd be better for you to tell him why and maybe that will help you sort out your feelings. I've been through a similar situation so I understand what you're going through :)

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I can’t suggest you to leave your man but pray on it baby girl it might takes time but you going to love the outcomes patience ❤️❤️❤️🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

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If you don’t want to leave then don’t have sex while you’re trying to fix your issues bc that just messes with you more but you deserve better

Crying during sex ??

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