My vagina is spoiled

So I just lost my virginity over a year ago when I was 20 years old. Because I wasnt having sex I was

masturbating (with a vibrator) and watching porn..alot. Now I finally have a bf thats on the same page as me and I cant orgasm off of head and im damn near too tight for him to penetrate me with his penis. I have came to the conclusion that my vagina is spoiled from the 6speed vibrator and unrealistic videos. Any advice on how to break this so I can have enjoyable sex?

P.S. I sorta think it has to do with me having a small clit as well so of any girls with the same problem have any tips around this I would appreciate it 🙃