New at ear Stretching

About two weeks ago i did my first stretch to 14g. My ears seem totally fine, not hurting, not sore. No redness or anything. I wanna go up to the next size but I know I’m supposed to wait.

I’ve been playing with my ears everyday, using jojoba oil, vitamin e oil. Is it still tooooo early to go up?

I know some people wait less time with the smaller sizes, but some people don’t.

Just want some advice.😂i wanna move up already but I know some people say it’s not okay. Again, my ears feel TOTALLY fine.