Anxiety problems

Does anyone have anxiety like mine?? Like I make little things into big situations & it suck, it goes into my sex life and life in general & when I talk with people about it, they be like you just have to calm down & I wish I can like my mind go against me and don't help that I am a paranoid person & I wish I could talk with someone that don't judge me & let me vent and don't look at me like I'm crazy or something & give me a advices, but I feel like I'm annoying people.