ok i am not officially diagnosed but i had a crappy childhood. my dad drank and did other drugs (tobacco and pot) all the time. he was at his worst when he was drunk though so i have some shitty memories of him drinking and being drunk. i have told my husband how drinking makes me feel, how everytime he drinks i have horrible flashbacks to my father drinking. yet he continues to drink or ask me if he can drink. i think it's to the point where he resent me because of how his drinking makes me feel. maybe it's just me but i feel like he doesn't care about how i feel. what do you think ladies?