Am I considered as a NICU mom?

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My 6 week old baby was born full term but she has been hospitalized with RSV bronchiolitis for half of her life so far. Am I considered as being a NICU mom or not? I tried to join a NICU mom support group on Facebook and they denied my request and said I wasn’t a “real” NICU mom. I understand that mothers have it a lot harder when they have a preemie but my daughter is on a ventilator, feeding tubes & breathing tubes and I’m going through a lot right now...