So idk where to post this, sorry if its the wrong place.

I’m exhausted by my SO mentally. He’s the kind of person to gas light me for crying or having any emotion. He makes me feel horrible for wanting to spend time with him after work, instead he calls his video games his “happiness”.

He raises his voice when we fight, sometimes screaming to get his point across. If I tell him to stop yelling at me, I can hear him fine if he talks, he continues or gets more upset.

He has anger problems and he knows it, and has said he needs to work on it but doesn’t.

I’m terrified, we just found out we’re expecting again so my emotion plus his just does not work. I’m so scared to leave him because I know he can be an amazing man I just want him to understand my point of view sometimes.

I don’t want my baby to grow up in a broken home but I’m so unhappy.

If he can’t work on these things I might just have to leave..

Anyone been in this position that can give me advice? Currently sitting in the bathtub crying at midnight while so plays video games. Im mentally and physically exhausted from this pregnancy and I know that heightened some of my feelings but I’ve never yelled or anything, just walked away or cried. He takes that offensively that I’m not “trying to fix the problem” but why would I stand there and get yelled at?

Someone please help