Me and my bf have been together for over a year now. I just turned 20 in November and he just turned 27 a few weeks ago. The first few months we were together I had found out he had a whole other girlfriend and had just broken up with her like a week before I said something to him. He explained to me blah blah I got over it we all make mistakes right? So we moved pretty fast he moved in with me and seen he was messaging other girls telling them their to pretty to be working and shit like that. I’m here thinking like then why tf am I working ?? But anyways he’s separated from him wife and his wife messaged (they haven’t been together for over a year) saying that he gave her herpes and that I have herpes now. So when I confronted him about it he said that he thought he did. How do you think you did? I seen his medical records he has a test on there that says negative and another one that says positive. The positive one was longer ago and the negative one is more recent. I haven’t had any signs of it but we never use condoms (this is what I get for trusting someone right ) I’ve seen like little bumps toward the head of his penis but I just dont want to believe this is true! I don’t have health insurance right now I’m in the process of getting it but soon I’ll be seeming my gynecologist. I’m beyond scared. I know that he isnt cheating on me since the first few months of out relationship but I’m scared I’ll realize I don’t want to be with him anymore and that I could never have another relationship again because I could never be able to bring myself to tell someone that I have herpes.