Birth control options 😬

I am in dire need of something new. I’ve been taking the pill for 3 years now, it works great considering I haven’t gotten pregnant BUT I think it is the reason I have depression and anxiety. Or it at least worsens it. I still want to be on birth control bc my man and I hate condoms (he still pulls out every time) but I would like to try a lower dose of bc. AND I do not want to have an implant, IUD, or the shot. So can someone share their stories on the way bc effected them and my options for pills or reasons why I should get off it period. I just don’t know 🤨