Hey girls!!!! So my husband and I got married in December 2017

We have known each other for 4years but took a year off of dating in 2016. During that time 🙄🙄 he “got a girl pregnant”. You guys have to understand this girl is opposite me. Like ratchet, hateful, and well UGLY (but men don’t always pick the bad ones for rebound) ANYWAYZ....

he kept me in the dark about the baby because we were not seeing each other in 2016. I was dating other men as well and we only spoke about our business we have once a month during the time to pay bills. 2017 rolls around and she has the baby... I find out on social media 🤭 and I send an email to congratulate him and also get them something from their registry.

His BM cut the clothes up that I bought for her new born and sent the box of the cut up material to my office 😆!

FAST FORWARD...

He proposes, August 2017 because he realizes that he couldn’t lose me (I was waiting on him to get his life together) and we took counseling. After counseling helped us work out our differences, we decided to get married. 😍😍😍

THEN HERE COMES THE BOOM

The BM gets mad and stops letting him take his child from her home. Claiming that she doesn’t want her child around me. Then she stops letting him see the child AT ALL because now the baby magically isn’t his anymore. 😤😤 She keep his parents from seeing the baby. Told everybody he was a deadbeat. (All while he is still giving her $200 a week without a child support order)

We got a lawyer to get legitimized and the DNA test comes back... 0% chance of paternity. 😩😩🤪🤪😭😭

YALL... all that drama for nothing! My husband cut another man’s child umbilical cord, financially supported another mans baby, bought everything (she didn’t have a job) for ANOTHER MANS BABY and she had the NERVE to watch him beg to see a kid that she knew wasn’t his. I had to watch my husband darn near drink himself to death over a baby SHE KNEW wasn’t his and waiting until she was mad that we were getting married to tell him.

Lesson to be learned... if y’all not married SWAB THAT BABY MOUTH!

to add.. she refused to sign the paperwork to get him off her kids birth certificate and change her kids last name from his. Had to go to court for THAT! She refuses to pay us back for the DNA test that SHE wanted so that she could “prove to us the baby isn’t his and leave her alone” 🙄🙄🙄 She literally is the one that tried to pin the baby on him. The little girl’s first name is named AFTER HIM!!! 🤮🤮

They got the baby dedicated at HIS HOME CHURCH and she stood there before GOD and... y’all I’m sooo glad we are done. But now, I’m having. Fertility issues and having trouble giving him a child 😩