My boyfriend and I always end up fighting about him thinking I don’t care because I don’t always want to have sex. Not only does my birth control lower my sex drive, but I was also raped as a kid so when we do have sex that’s always in the back of my mind. He says that I shouldn’t think about it and just do it with him. Should I suck it up and do it when I don’t feel like it? I always end up doing that and lately I feel as though he doesn’t think about what I’ve been through. I’ve been very open with him about it and he doesn’t seem to care. I just don’t know what to do