Birth Control, Pill

Need experiences. i asked about Nexplannon before. mostly looking for helping my acne around my jaw line which is hormonal. i have my yearly DR apt tomorrow. i want to ask her, but she is also judgy. i had an abortion last fall and she would always give snarky vibes when we went over my pulling out method. i go og for NOT pulling out btw . ANYWAY the responses about the implant seemed not to be for me, so how about you ladies on the pill? pros cons. i read about weight gain, and wierd periods , having mega long periods ect. which is not ok with me! my periods are mostly regular. i know my cycle, and condoms work for us. so i want minimum side effects