Ingrown hairsšŸ˜”šŸ˜”

Does anyone else get a ton of ingrown hairs on their lady goods? Iā€™ve tried waxing and shaving and every single time I still get ingrown hairs all over my vulvašŸ˜ž and they are usually filled with pus too.

And donā€™t tell me itā€™s an STD, Iā€™m a virgin so I know itā€™s not. Anyways, does anyone have some tips on how to avoid/prevent/treat ingrown hairs?