Ingrown hairs😔😔

Does anyone else get a ton of ingrown hairs on their lady goods? I’ve tried waxing and shaving and every single time I still get ingrown hairs all over my vulvašŸ˜ž and they are usually filled with pus too.

And don’t tell me it’s an STD, I’m a virgin so I know it’s not. Anyways, does anyone have some tips on how to avoid/prevent/treat ingrown hairs?