Do you like to get oral?? Advice needed...

Okay! So I hate when my husband “goes down” on me. From the history of my sex life I have never enjoyed this and I find it disgusting. Like if you like it, that’s fine. But my vagina is not something I’d ever want to lick lol. I don’t feel like this is necessary for me to have a good sex life. When I’ve expressed this to my girl friends they act like something is wrong with me and I need to be fixed-even suggesting that I have “problems.” My husband always wants to do this and I explained to him that it turns me off and grosses me out AND it doesn’t feel good! And he acted all disappointed and said he thinks maybe I have issues with my body??? I thought I was allowed to have preferences. I feel so invalidated but I’m not changing my mind. I don’t like oral so don’t give me oral😂💁🏽. But it makes me feel like I’m not fulfilling him sexually but I shouldn’t be forced to do SOMETHING I HATE