Unhappy birthday to me.

For the past 4 years my birthday kind of non existent (had two babys in 11 months so didn't have time or energy to ever do anything to celebrate). However for the last 4 years I've never even had a card from my husband or the kids. Since the first week of January I've been talking to my husband about how this year I wanted to do something, even just take out and movie.... just something. Got up this morning my mum calls to say happy birthday. My husband was all "oh is that today". It's on his calender pluss I told him a week ago. We get ready and go to my mums. He leaves, me thinking he's going to get a card or some kind of suprise. Get home....Nothing. He's now gone to work. I never forget his birthday always do cards and gifts from me and the kids. I've never even had a mothers day card. Part of me feels ungrateful but then the other part of me wants to scream at him. I just needed to rant and get that off my chest.