I had been with my LO partner for 1 and a half years when we decided to try for a baby. we had been best friends for 2 years before dating and friends for 8 years. We lost the baby to Trisomy 18. That same year my work promoted me from Wisconsin to Texas, it was perfect, a fresh start and that was where he was originally from. His entire family is from there. We tried again and I became pregnant in November!!! How exciting!!! My rainbow baby! Kaya was born August 31, 2017. I noticed strange actions from my partner though... he got a new job at a nursing facility and all of a sudden started working late and having to go out of town.. FUNNY his paychecks were always SHORT. I had stopped sleeping with him in May, he started the new job in March... Things got bad once Kaya was born. I had an emergency C-section, he slept in the hospital the entire time... I ended up with a staph infection too. He was just not helping and something was up. I decided to move back to Wisconsin. I found a job and in October I told him I was leaving him. He didn't try to stop me either, he told me to leave and take Kaya with. I moved out officially November 16, he even drove my Uhaul up to Wisconsin, of course I had to pay for his plane ticket back. It's difficult raising a baby on your own, I was confused and both of us at first missed eachother. I was contemplating moving back. I even found a job willing to relocate me when he said don't do it. Then he told me he was having a baby. He had a one night stand with a woman in December. Well she messaged me on FB telling me they were having a boy and to leave them alone he didn't care about his daughter, they had been sleeping together. They had worked together.. she was due the beginning of June (go ahead do the math). He had been sleeping with her whike I was living with him. Needless to say he has 5 other kids that live by me NONE of which he sees.. so that's 7 Kids total. I have a Bachelors Degree, a career... his new "wife," they are getting married... has no job, 5 other kids she doesn't have custody of and rotten teeth!!! That's what he left me for. I filed for child support and have blocked him since he never asks about her or anything and his new wife went psycho on me. It's sad but Kaya and I are better off!! There needs to be a law where guys get automatically snipped!!! That's me and my rainbow baby in the first few pics and him and his new wife in the last 2!!!