It really grinds my gears that almost everyone in this world thinks it is mental abuse that a wife or husband tells her or his husband or wife what to do sometimes and they themselves listen and agree it is a good thing somtimes...for instance like telling you husband not to watch porn, look up dirty pics, or talk to other girls....and i know to others porn can be seen as a good thing but to me and some others it isn't and can be very additive and ruining relationships...I'm just so sick of what the wild has become( now my other rant/vent) it is even ok for people to tell kids as young as 13 to go out and have 1 nightstands it just has gotin out of had no wounded this world is so full of girl,weman,and even boy and men that have so many body, andm mental problems...it can't be helped now a days when it is the norm for 13 year olds to have sex and porn is so popular that it is expected for men to have a 12 inch dick to please a girl and a girl must be able to bend in ways her body should not and be perfect and just the right size or she isn't considerd good looking....uhh its so stupid....love who you are everyone and maybe thus world can be a better place :)

ps. sorry for the long post and I know people won't think the same way as me,..and speaking up is a good thing and I do it is just that only a few people can't change the world