Did this work for anyone else???

So my husband and I have been trying g since the last week of September. Have gotten all negatives on test every month. I have decided we stop trying and just have fun, don't document anything but when AF will arrive. I'm the type of person that gets my hopes up super easy, even my husband knows this. So I told him the other day that we would just allow it to happened when it happened. We are both tries of getting our hopes up.. HAS THIS HELPED ANYONE ELSE??????