I feel so upset, and so stupid.

I have been married to my husband for 4 years. 3 years before we got married he had been divorced. His family still rubs his ex wife in my face, I still find her photos scattered through out our house. I was never given a chance with his family because they all have very close ties to her, and are still on “her side” to say the least.

They had no children together. We have 3. I can’t shake the feeling of being the ‘second wife’ and not being able to even be around his family because they aren’t welcoming of me...

Just venting.