Anyone is welcome to give me their opinion, advice, or thoughts. This is between my older sister and I. She is getting married in Nov, her bachelorette party is in Sept and she is inviting most of her fiancées family to go. It’s going to be a cruise. I was excited at first because I’ve never been on one so I agreed. What she didn’t tell me was that everyone is getting the alcohol package which is like $60 a day. When she said $60 I thought that’s fine whatever. I don’t even drink $60 worth of alcohol in a year. But it’s not too bad I can swing it. I come to find out I have to pay almost $300. The only way to get out of this is to not go and cause everyone’s room to go to $200 extra. Or be pregnant. I’m not ok with either choice. But I’m not down to spend extra $300 on nothing so everyone else can drink and I can go. So now my sister is angry. It’s not that I don’t want to go. I’d love to be there. But she doesn’t understand. Her wedding and the port will be in another state from me. My husband is about to get his FDS orders (he’s in the army) and those could be Germany, Alaska, or any other state. So I may have to pay a lot on a flight to get to the port, and then her wedding only 2 months later. I also have to pay for childcare while my husband works while I go. He won’t have leave time. So she isn’t understanding all the extra cost. So for a 4 day cruise that only goes to Cozumel I am going to pay $750 plus airfare. Plus anything else extra. So who is wrong in this situation?