harder

it's getting harder to put up with this. lately, I am the root of all problems. "just keep it to yourself so he doesn't move out, we need him so we don't go under." so I'm supposed to keep my mouth shut and not tell him when I need him to do the right thing just because he threatens to move out? he's my brother in law, that doesn't mean I'm not going to tell him to grow up and wash his damn dishes. "we don't need the arguments, babe."

I ain't his mum. If only he could take some advice without his sensitive little hotheaded self taking offense to it.