Inexperienced boyfriend

I'm a sex addict. if he would id have sex 6-10 times a day. my boyfriend dosent have much experience. I don't mind showing him new things but I don't like always being in control. I miss foreplay; being ate out, and fingered. when I'm riding and I get off n cant keep going to be grabbed at my hips forced to that perfect get off 😍 he's smaller than me n cant control me like I want to be controlled. Idk what to do.