Postpartum sex

Well, I'll start with saying that baby is 17 weeks today. Last time hubby and I had sex was a week before she was born.

It's been 18 weeks of No sex.

We tried one time, but hubby had some nerves and couldn't get hard. 😢. I didn't make a big deal of it but I think he's been too scared to try again. I'm breastfeeding and find it very hard to get in the mood. I'm sure that doesn't help the situation either.

I know we will get back to it eventually so my question is did it take anyone else that long or longer to have sex again?