Help!

My 4 month old has refused bottles for 3 months. I’ve accepted this is just how life is. The problem is that means I’ve been her only source of eating, which leads to being her main source of comfort and rocking . We spend all day together and are rarely apart. Last night I left for under an hour . My husband called me frantically that she has been basically screaming since I left. She never screams. I got home and within seconds of me taking her , she was fine. I love that she’s a mommas girl but I want to feel like she’s going be okay with her daddy. He tries so hard but even when I’m home she will not allow him to put her to sleep. I feel like since she can’t take a bottle they’ve missed out on that bonding time. Any advice on how to improve their bond. What’s weird is she’s completely okay with my mom rocking her. I can tell he’s frustrated too and a little hurt . Andy advice is appreciated