Kinda need to vent

So my boyfriend and his mom are driving me crazy. We are both in college and long distance. Of course our spring breaks don’t line up but since my bf is going to Florida to visit his grandparents for the week they keep insisting I go. I only have class Tuesday/ Thursday but still even if I went for the weekend I intern monday, Wednesday, Friday which they know then on top it’s like a $400 flight for me to go four days!! So I politely explained how yes I would love to go but academically and financially it ain’t realistic. Well now they are both teaming up saying how I need to visit his family this summer where he lives. My bf visits me more since his class schedule is very flexible, he has a lot more breaks and when he works he plans his trips around that. I just don’t get why they think that they need to tell me what to do when they know how busy I am (planning to graduate a year early this summer) and working and interning. I legit can’t take it especially when my bf knows this and doesn’t remind his mom!